Kissing picture of the day – A beautiful kiss at the net, from Home of Forward Emails.

Surely, the simple kiss needs to be understood to be appreciated.

Some chappy over at Scientific American has written out some stuff. His points include
- Kissing started from mothers who would chew food and then feed them to their kids.
- Information gathered from a kiss can help in mate selection
- Kisses can cause neurotransmitters that can arouse feelings of intimacy, closeness, as well as sexual arousal.

Do you agree ? Are there any other reasons that you could fathom where kissing would have increased one’s survival chances ?

Kissing girls: It’s meant to be fun. If you’re nervous about kissing women, or see it as only a gateway towards sex, you’re missing out. In fact, the more you take your time with kissing and truly enjoy it, the more chances you have of enjoying physical intimacy with a girl. So let me show you how to kiss girls–and enjoy it!

If you’ve never kissed before, the best thing you can possibly do is RELAX. It isn’t a big deal if you muck up your first kiss! Girls are very understanding, and you can actually laugh about it. I know so many couples who joke about their first kiss. The first kiss most people have is an awkward one, so girls will forgive you if it’s not perfect!

Next, learn proper kissing technique. That means knowing how to move in for the kiss, controlling your tempo, kissing for affection, and kissing for intimacy. There are lots of websites out there, but I like this site the best for kissing girls the RIGHT ways. You’ll get pictures and everything about what’s right and what’s wrong.

I’m going to cover two particular areas of kissing in this column: kissing for affection, and kissing for intimacy. First let’s talk about kissing for intimacy. Say you’re on a date and want to move things to the next level. The best way to do it is to talk about how you’d like to kiss her. As one guru, Craig, says, “Talking about sex is the first step towards having it.” Likewise, talking about kissing is the first step towards actual kissing. It will relax both of you and, if said in a relaxed, confident, NOT desperate tone, can really excite a girl.

Once you do get to kissing, kiss with passion: don’t half-job it! Use your arms, your body: press into her, touch her face with your hands, stroke her hair. All these things show you’re serious about intimacy and want her in the worst way.

If she pulls in, you’re doing great. Pulls back, just slow it down. Just because she doesn’t do it with the same passion as you doesn’t mean she wants it. A lot of times girls want to take things slower than guys. That’s fine: match her tempo. Kiss her on the neck, the cheeks, all over. Eventually that will warm her up.

When she starts to get into it (moaning, moving closer to you, grabbing you back), you can start kissing her in her erogenous zones all over the body. Remember, kissing isn’t just on the lips! If you really want to get intimate, kiss her below the neck–on her thighs, on her hips (very sensitive area!) and even on her feet. Not to mention the obvious areas. This should guarantee you a great night.

But kissing doesn’t end with sex! Too many guys make that mistake. Sex is only the BEGINNING of the kissing stage! As you’re performing, remember to kiss her all over her body, particularly on the neck and breasts. Show that you’re not interested just in a quick act–you want to be passionate and intimate, as well. Kissing achieves this purpose, and will make the girl eager to do it again!

For affection, kissing is the best. As I say in my e-book and audio articles, women LOVE surprises, so nothing shows you love your girlfriend (or wife) like a surprise, spontaneous kiss out of nowhere! She’ll love it, and thank you for it. She’ll also reward you for it, by staying with you and treating you great. Happy wife, happy life!

The same goes with girlfriends. Don’t be surprised if she starts bringing you breakfast in bed, buying you presents, acting a lot nicer, when you give her lots of kisses out of nowhere, just to remind her that you love her. This works!

Remember, kissing is meant to be FUN. Once you see the fun and enjoyable side of kissing, you’ll surely want more and more. As an old Chinese proverb goes, “Kissing is like drinking tea with a tea strainer: you can never get enough.”

To learn more great kissing techniques, I recommend the following site. I find its information to be practical, effective, and very easy to digest:

About the Author:

James Brito, bestselling author of “How to Be Irresistible to Women,” delves into secrets of female attraction. Since 2000, he has helped thousands of men worldwide find the women of their dreams. Get started today with his free six-part audio mini-course: http://www.000relationships.com/towomen

So you want to know how to kiss a girl and have her knees buckle? I will lead you in this article in accelerating your skills as a kisser.

Most men have not taken the time to study the fine art of kissing a woman.

To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you.

If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you.

Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing.

After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you.

Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%.

Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed. So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her.

One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention.

People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed.

The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss.

Why is modeling her kiss so potent? Have you ever met a woman who considers herself a bad kisser? I think not. So if you kiss her the way she kisses you are guaranteed to be good in her eyes.

Secondly, people who are like each other “like” each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages

By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss.

She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head.

Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she’s putting on your lips.

Pay close attention to the pressure, speed, and way she is kissing you with her lips and do the same to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations:

There’s the single top lip, where both of your lips are on one of her top lip.

There’s the single bottom lip, where both of your lips are on her bottom lip.

There’s the double lip, where the two of your lips are together and touching.

There’s the open mouth kiss, where both lips are further apart and perhaps your heads are slightly tilted.

The last one often leads into the French kiss, where your tongues are dancing with each other.

As a rule, hold off on the tongue initially. Most women like to take kissing slowly, and unless she is thrusting her tongue into your mouth, do not take the initiative until you have at least been modeling her kiss for a minute.

Continue to model her kiss for as long as possible. Pretend it’s a mirroring exercise and you are mirroring exactly what she’s doing.

Mirror also the time that she takes in touching the lips together and separating with your lips, so that you become essentially like two people with one lip, exploring each other.

Throughout the modeling process, you can be lightly stroking her hair, holding her head tenderly, or gently caressing her face to add the incredibly delicious moment.

Once you have modeled her kiss for some time, you can then venture to lead her with you kiss to deepen the passion and exploration.

If you really enjoy introducing your tongue into the kiss, then start slowly. You seldom want to just thrust your tongue into her mouth.

Allow her to lead slightly, especially with something as intrusive as the tongue, and just put it at the entrance of her mouth near her lips.

Let her take the lead first in beginning to dance with you. You want to listen and feel and merge into this dance between the two of you.

Keep your tongue soft and after a bit of exploration, you can trace her upper or lower lip gently with your tongue. This is a great way to test to see whether she wants to join you in the tongue dance.

If her tongue comes out to meets yours, then begin to dance with the tip of her tongue before engaging with her deeper.

There are several ways for you to amplify the deliciousness of the kiss. One of the ways is to say things in your head or out loud like, “I absolutely love kissing you”, or “You are such an incredible woman”, or “You are so yummy, I just want to devour you”, etc.

When you say these things in your head or to her it’s going to magnify the potency of the kiss manifold.

This is absolutely dynamite. Try it, and you’ll know what I mean. This is what will really blow her mind with pleasure and have her melt into you because you are adoring her in the way she has fantasized about by mirroring how she wants to be kissed.

To further amplify the deliciousness of the kiss, you can more fully incorporate all the finesse of touch. Stroke her face gently as you separate briefly before lightly engaging her lips again.

Caress the back of her head with both hands as you kiss her or move your hands down her back and press her chest against yours or move her lower back into your pelvis depending on what effect you like to co-create with her.

Coordinate the way you kiss her with how you masterfully touch her face, hair, neck, and back to create incredibly delicious sensations for her. After enough modeling, change the way you kiss her to generate a sizzling combination of pleasure with her.

Enjoy this incredible, magnificent gift that is the kiss, and delve into the many nuances and allow it to bring you both incredible pleasures.

Allow yourself to take two steps forward and one step back, so that you’re building the energy gradually. You do not have to move forward and amplify the energy all the time.

Let her know that she is an incredible kisser and that you really appreciate connecting with her in such a delicious way. Perhaps pause to share some intimate stories and cuddling before going back in to kiss her again.

Kissing can be so intimate, so juicy, and so delightful. It is an amazing way to continue to create the profound intimacy that you have with your woman.

Allow yourself the time, the patience, and the spaciousness to truly enjoy the work of art that is your kiss.

The best way to learn how to kiss a girl is to take hours to just make out with each other. Pretend that you are back in high school and that this is one of the most exciting discoveries you have made in life.

Savor every moment of the kiss with her and have this naturally lead you to deeper sensual and sexual exploration that will blow her mind.

Mastering the fine art on how to kiss a girl is only the tip of the iceberg on bringing your woman absolute incredible pleasures that she does not even know is possible.

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Just think of being in front of a warm cracking with you partner in your hands, with a kiss and a cuddle. But have you ever thought about why people kiss? It could be a greeting or a sign of affection, but we all kiss.

Origin of the kiss

The strangest theory on the history of the kiss that I have heard finds its roots in the age of the cave man. It is thought that in primitive times that a mother pre-chewed the food for her baby and transferred it ‘in a kiss’. Although this could never be proved, it would explain why the kiss is a sign of affection, between mother and child and latter, adults.

Another theory that I found was that the kiss was reflected in the Ziller Valley of Central Europe, where the exchange of pre-chewed tobacco between a male and a female was common. The young man would let a tip of the piece of tobacco, or spruce resin, etc rest between his closed teeth and invite the girl to grasp it with her teeth — which of course obliged her to press her mouth firmly on that of the young man — and pull it out. If a girl accepted the wad of pre-chewed tobacco, it meant she returned the boy’s love.

The third theory that I found was from a religious or sacred origin. There have been examples from around the world as early as 2000 BC, that show that people could have brought their faces together to symbolise spiritual union. Even in the culture of Indians, it was believed that the exhaled breath was part of the soul, and by two people bringing their mouths together, showed the joining of their souls. (Another variation on this believed that kissing evolved from the smelling of a companion’s face as an act of greeting. )

Kiss through history

Even without fully knowing where the kiss came from, it is well known that the kiss has been with us for a long time.

In the sixth century in France, dancing was one way to display affection, but every dance was ended in a kiss.

Apparently, Russia was the first to incorporate the kiss into the marriage ceremony, where a promise was sealed with a kiss.

The Romans kissed to greet each other. On Roman emperor showed a persons importance, by what part of his body they were allowed to kiss, from the cheek to the foot.

In 16th century England, the clove-studded apple originated. An apple was prepared by piercing it with as many cloves as the fruit could hold and then a maid then carried the apple through the fair till she spied a lad she thought worth kissing. She would offer him the apple, and once he’d selected and chewed one of the cloves, they would share a kiss. After that, the apple passed into the man’s possession, and he would venture off in search of another lass to continue the game with.

At one stage it was even thought that people found kissing pleasurable because when the two lips met during kissing, an electric current was generated.

A kiss is a kiss

Now days, kisses range from small pecks on the cheeks as a greeting, to an the use of the lips and tongue as a sign of passion. It is that action that when two people embrace, causes hormones are released into the blood stream, inducing a sense of euphoria that you feed in the sweetness of your lovers mouth.

It’s a kiss that brings every fibre of your being alive, turns your stomach over, sends Goosebumps up your spine. It’s a kiss that forgives your misdemeanours and smiles at your mistakes. Ingrid Bergman puts it together in that “a kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous”.

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