This is a guide to french kissing. Learn the basics and get the basics right, then you`re set and ready to try different styles and more advanced ways to kiss.
How to french kiss with passion
Brush your teeth, get all nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than a kiss that smells worse than a dumpster
Get comfortable - you can't kiss if you`ve got a wedgie and your neck is strained and feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa.
Hold your kissee, firmly but gently - don't cause pain. My suggestion would be to hold the waist, both sides of the neck or gently on each side of the face.
Pull him or her toward you slowly. Don't bump noses. My suggestion would be the to angle your face slightly so you don't bump noses.
Close your eyes before you kiss with closed lips. Closing your eyes increases the sensation you feel, and also sets the mood. It`s also polite.
Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before trying anything else.
If you`re doing fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the your kissee`s lips.
Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her lips, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion.
The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the whole essence of french kissing, and why so many find it so sensual and passionate.
After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking lightly on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that.
Swallow your own saliva. It`s the only polite way, and having it drool out just isn`t cool.
Keep to the front of the mouth, concentrating kissing and licking her lips and tongue. There`s nothing you need to mess with anything back there and gag her. Play tongue tennis, not tonsil tennis.
Don't bite. Just nibble. whatever you do, don't bite and don`t draw blood.
Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through.
Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose. That way, you can get the kiss going a little longer.
Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, running your fingers lightly along her waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain.
Girls like it if you make a little noise. Sort of like mmmm .. softly and lightly. don`t overdo it.
Continue kissing. You`re getting the hang of it now, aren`t you?
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